Month: April 2018

Lessons from Reddit

As I mentioned on the thread and over @ Rollo’s, I’ve been “trolling” reddit.

https://www.reddit.com/user/WIA20XX

These boys on Reddit need help.  The Red Pill group is slightly better than the Seduction group, but they care more about “destroying feminism” than bagging chicks.

For the slow pokes – this is bagging chicks as simple as possible

  1. Continuous Self Development
  2. Finding the Right Places to Go
  3. Getting your own exit logistics sorted
  4. Meeting and Befriending Staff for two purposes – to not get thrown out, to have people to introduce the girl too.
  5. Spotting girls and assessing the situation
  6. Stepping Up and Getting Her Attention
  7. Whatever your attraction style is
  8. Handling the girls friends, obstacles, and her logistics
  9. Building Trust by introducing her to people (like the ones that work at the bar, see above) and moving around the bar, to new locations.
  10. A slight bit of arousal.
  11. Giving her a good excuse to leave with you.
  12. Leaving (see getting your logistics sorted out)
  13. Getting home, increasing the arousal, and finally
  14. READING THE BIBLE. (This is a family blog)

That’s it.  That’s all it will ever be.  Daytime, in Addis Ababa, Social Circle.  The only thing that is considerably different is so-called online game.

And at the highest altitude, Steps 1-5 are about qualifying your prospect, advertising, selling your prospect in person, answering objections, and then finally closing.  So it could look a lot like online game or sales, except the practical applications are different.

But these Seddit boys don’t want to hear it.  They want to use some sort of magic trick to make the girl at the college library fall in love with them.

They get a number from a super excited girl, and then fail to realize she’s not gonna be super excited text from some random # that say’s “Sup”.

In that respect it’s been very instructive, cause I haven’t really rapped with young dudes just getting their feet wet in a long time.

Mind Games

For the past 6 months or so, I’ve been retooling my verbal game.

So the basic sequence from MM was

  1. Attract
  2. Comfort
  3. Seduce

I think the overall model of how to pull is right, but I’ve got a fetish for comprehension – so I think the words are wrong.

Here’s how I think about it.

  1. Draw Her Into a Cycle of Validation
  2. Build Trust
  3. Arouse

Sort of the same thing, but this really just tells you about my game, my thinking process.  And less about the “essential” nature of the game. (whatever that may be)

I am deliberately trying to draw a picture in the girl’s mind when I talk to her.  The same way Nas can paint a picture of NYC in NY State of Mind.

From part 3

If you knew my streets

You would know all everybody talk about is who got beef

Who’s snitchin’, who told police

Who came home, who’s still gone, who rest in peace

Now they killin’ over music money, not drugs, rap replaced it

Cause thugs with no brains got no patience

New jacks I pistol whip ’em with the funky rhythm I be kickin’

Musician, inflictin’ composition of pain

I’m like Saddam Hussein

Still alive, lookin’ at his dead children’s burnt remains

I birthed the game, learned you lames a new lesson

Your crew’s soft man, y’all need some new weapons

The Ps breed warriors in skullies and Timbies

Around micks, spics, niggas, and guineas

So that’s what I’m doing.  And to this end, I’m reading a lot more about film, writing plays, comedy, magic, illusion, etc.

Given that a writer can conjure up a dragon or a far away galaxy with the flick of a pen – how do film/tv makers convince you that this flat 2 dimensional set of moving lights is real life?

Special Effects, Lighting, Music……..

Dialogue…

I came from the pick up era where lines and scripts were the preferred way to pull.

Honestly, I could only remember a line or two of someone else’s stuff – but I absorbed the idea – what the stories meant.  So I would take my own personal stories, and then punch them up so that they grab an audience better.

To that end, this is a nice piece from the chicks @ ScreenPrism.

0:48 – “Faking empathy to make them open up”

1:59 – She breaks down the power play between Ed Kemper (Serial Killer) and the Agent.

This scene, this filmed capture of two actors doing their best work, – this thing convinces the viewer that this is real.  This creates the ‘spell’.

And a lot of the spell is not in the words themselves, but in the expressions and the reactions and shifts in position between the two.

File to Game is Everywhere

-Archie