Beef in the YouTube Black Manosphere

I was writing a long post about the YouTube Black Manosphere.  I think there are some interesting and exciting things going on.

But I just deleted the bulk of it, because I’m realizing something many of you guys already know – guy only spaces are like girl only spaces – a lot of beef, name calling, sneak dissing, gossip etc.

So even though I think all of us do watch some of these Youtube celebs from time to time, catch some nuggets of wisdom – if you’re like me, it’s a lot of stuff to wade through to get to the jewels.

So the latest bit of beef is this.

The Saint and The Sinner (book review coming as soon as I finish reading it) – as background, I believe the brother is from Cali.  Has a pimping background, but also went to great schools and has run tech companies.  I’ll take the man at his word about his bonafides and I judge his content more than his resume.  Overall, I like his content.  I disagree here and there, but I never expect to agree with someone 100%, nor do I expect someone to agree with me.

The Spark

Saint is at the Copacabana Beach in Rio and is not impressed by the quality of women there.

Okay, although I can see a nice one in the thumbnail, my time in Brazil showed me that the whole country doesn’t look like a Rap Video.  The idea that a place is not crawling with 8’s, 9’s, and 10’s should not be surprising to anyone.  In fact, rampant obesity should not be a shocker either, it’s world wide. When you fat people in Saigon, that should tell you something.  But the USA takes the cake in the fat-Olympics in my opinion.

His comment section agrees with him.  It was a one off video for laughs.

But that’s not how this will play out.

So my man 1 Master Teacher, a Brazil veteran, is disagreeing with Saint.

Okay, if you’ve seen 1MT’s work around the globe, he’s a true passport player.

Again, it’s not secret that a Black man handling his business, can network before he goes and connect with some nice locals, and sometimes just parachute into a country and make it happen.  Young dude, in decent shape, got money to spend?  A brother does not need to resort to pay for play.  Tinder dates via Google Translate is the norm. A lot of people do not want Black men to realize that as a brand, we are a pretty attractive lot.  Women, the world over, like us as a group for romantic and physical activities.

If paying $20 bucks for a 3 course dinner in Fortaleza is “simping” to a lot of dudes – we just aren’t in the same tax bracket.  I regularly go on dinner dates with women.  I don’t see that as tricking.  A lot of guys do. *shrugs*

That said, the disagreement here is about the content, not about the person.

Two brothers can disagree.  The disagreement can be heated, but at the end of the day, we can agree to disagree.

But 1MT wasn’t the only reaction.

Enter Oshay Duke Jackson. 

Him and my man Obsidian are basically the backbone of the Black Youtube Manosphere.  They took it upon themselves to somewhat organize what’s generally considered a crazy realm.

The players in the Black Manosphere/Black Youtube aimed at men.

      • Pimps – Sinful the P, Freeze Iz It
      • Old School Dating Coaches from the PUA Era – Mr. Locario
      • Black Red Pill Guys – AlphaMale Strategies, StephisCold
      • Black Passport – Ace is Live
      • Black Guys in the Red Pill Space – Greg Adams
      • Dating Coaches – Too many to name, but i’ll come up with a list
      • Women trying to make a few dollars in the space
      • Brothers in the Tech Space
      • Brothers in the Finance/Money Space
      • Black PUAs – who are largely not integrated with the sphere…but could be

I’m not trying to link all these guys to Oshay, but he’s featured a good number of them, and is featured with a lot of them.  He will showcase people he doesn’t agree with and have a discussion.  And those folks get followers from his base.  Cross-pollination helps everyone in the space, as the rest of Youtube figured out a decade ago.

Remember this classic joint?

That said, Oshay definitely is not above a bit of roasting.  I’ve definitely had my fair share of chuckles and headshakes at his material.

Oshay Points the Cannon at Saint

Note the title of the video is to take advantage of the Youtube Algorithm, as Saint Kevin Samuels is really preaching the gospel to Black Women, 3 nights a week, with clips from different platforms. The most professional YouTuber in the space.

https://youtu.be/Lp0e_ok52f0

So Saint is talking about Brazilian chicks not being all that.  Fair enough.  We can agree to disagree.

But who’s shooting the video?

Oshay shows hidden camera footage of Saint’s assistant and has some commentary about her. Let’s just say this was not very kind on Oshay’s part.

I’m unclear about who the young lady is, what their relationship is, and I’m not trying to find out.  That’s not my business.

But *shots fired*.

Saint and the Sinner Responds

https://youtu.be/o9TZWTBVhB0

The proper roasting starts at 51:45 

Saint does some internet research and presents that to his audience.  Saint is out for blood.  Needless to say, when government names come up, the conflict has escalated.  I won’t repeat said allegations, you can watch the video or read the comment section like I tend to do.

The War Continues

The title is “Dusty Liars, Clout Chasers, Doxxers, And False Allegations”

This is a live broadcast and may or may not be available later.

https://youtu.be/xcAluzLf38Q

This one should stay up.

https://youtu.be/E-b2uxx1cCg

While all of this is happening, Pro-Oshay followers and Pro-Saint Followers are clashing in these internet streets.

So what’s the lesson here?

The Black Man Youtube-Sphere is still gelling.  There are new and veteran content creators all vying for eyeballs.  And in that race for dollars….

Dollars?

 

99 Real dollars are being spent in the Chat. (twice) (And the dude putting up them dollars, DOESN’T LIKE OSHAY).  He’s getting haters to pay him 200 bucks.

That’s what is at stake here.

-Archie

 

The Rare Gem from Reddit’s TRP

So the scenario, probably a troll, is a dude that’s allowed his woman to stay home and do a home based and craft based business.  AND he gives her a generous allowance.

So what does the woman do?

You already know.

He cuts her allowance, and now she won’t talk to him..

So as these things go, divorce is on the horizon.

Here’s some real RP stuff

If you have a significant amount of money in your accounts you may want to start withdrawing it and hiding the cash. Then start attending AA and/ or gambling addiction support groups for several months. Have the chairperson sign your attendance sheet that you keep for your records. If there’s a casino near you withdraw money from their on site atm and keep the receipts. If you get divorced and the judge wants to seize your assets you will have proof that you drank and gambled it all away. You will also have your cash to fall back on once the dust settles.

Terrence Popp had a great video on this. He calls it administrative violence. YouTube may have taken it down and I can’t remember the title. But if you can find it he gives a lot of great tips. You get the idea though. Good luck.

Wow.

High IG Status guy slides into DMs

If you spend anytime on the interwebz, trying to teach the truth to the youth (c) Rebel Ins – you’re always coming across low effort losers.

That want to “slide into the DMs”

So what happens when a fairly good looking social media influencer does it?

His numbers – 9/50. Wow.

Yet at the end he comes back to reality.  If you want a high profile/high status girl, you need to be in her city and in her social circle.

The Game never changes.

 

Shorty Wanna a Thug RMX

Who are these people?

  • MTR – Mediocre Tutorials and Reviews – is an up and coming Black Manosphere Youtuber.
  • Jenee Amore is somewhat “famous” in the sphere because of 1 Master Teacher and other folks in the Black Dating Sphere feature her.

The topic should be well known to those of us in this space.

I usually don’t talk about it because “dissecting the bad boy” doesn’t help good boys.  If anything, it makes taciturn Tyrone’s turn up into tough talking gangstas.  Only to catch a case trying to sell weed.  That’s a topic for a different blog.

Do women like hoods, crooks, criminals, thugs, etc?

The people who say this cherry pick the evidence.  They know one girl who got with one really bad guy.  Maybe they know a string of them.

But the thug in question usually looks like this

I’ll admit that Jeremy Meeks is a low blow.

The usual “thug” archetype is tall, strong, dark, ruggedly handsome, and very dominant.  However he’s got a heart of gold or something.

That’s how the ‘Sphere and society at large explains thug appeal.

Clearly none of these folks have ever worked in criminal justice.  Never dealt with lots of actual felons and convicts.

There are plenty of felons and convicts that have zero appeal to women.  

Millions I would say.  The vast majority in fact.

Scroll through these galleries

https://www.fox10phoenix.com/news/mug-shot-gallery-october-2020

https://wcfcourier.com/news/local/mugshot-gallery-for-january-2020/collection_7edc0103-8b50-5c64-929d-9adb08c46527.html

How many of these dudes have chicks crying their eyes out, smuggling phone’s in with their “jail purse”?

A few, sure.  Most? Hell naw.

There’s nothing inherently attractive about criminal activities.  (Unless she’s Ukrainian)  *shots fired*

What women find attractive in these men, is the same traits that they find attractive in other already attractive men.

Can something be said for the dead eyes?  

A lot of guys look for the thousand partner stare when it comes to females to assess her ability to pair bond.

Do women like the battle weary?

How many chicks are attracted to victims of PTSD?

There’s something to be said about men who’s lives you can read on their faces.

There’s a heaviness.  That, “he’s been through some shit” look.

It’s something that jokey-jokey PUAs don’t realize works against them.

Is there anything thrilling about crime? About breaking rules?

Maybe the girl is envisioning some Bonnie and Clyde or Tony and Carmela situation.

Tapping into a chick’s internal narratives is one of the keys to the game, but most of the time Thugnificent is not running game on the chick, she’s running game on herself.

https://youtu.be/AMgopQDdbtM

Let’s put this one to rest, so that guys can stop trying to analyze bad boys, hope that you can crack the code and be a sociopath Lothario.

– Archie