According to Grand Puba, there’s only 1 way in and 2 ways out.
There are 4 ways in as far as I’m concerned. Three ways that have to do with the player, and one that has to do with the girl.
It’s Not About You
A lot of “surface” players do the minimum to get some trim. They brush their teeth, put on some clean clothes, spritz a little cologne, and head down to their local booty shaking establishment.
If you’ve been to these things before, the scene is pretty much the same. Guys gather around “guy” areas. They hold the wall, beer at chest level. And they watch…they watch…and if the club closes @ 2 a.m. they finally get the courage to spit at a chick at 1:10.
If you’re sober and know what to look for, you see this in every city and in every club.
What you will also notice is that a lot of the girls are just as stiff and just as afraid to talk to people.
Not all of them.
Some of them have their game face on, and their positioning themselves to attract the most attention. Partly because they’re attention whores, but some of them chicks are trying to bang that night. (Forthcoming post DTF tells)
What motivates that DTF State?
Sometimes it is hormonal. The right time of the month hits, ovulation, and unconsciously she shows more skin, and is more open to getting into it with someone.
Standard ‘internet pick up stuff’ focuses on these sort of bio-signals. WIA is not about the standard bullshit.
When you really deal with women, you’ll see how little sex means to them, and how much their inner life and emotions dictate their actions. For the truly sharp readers, they see these patterns in women and notice them in men. For the God-Like among you, ultimately you’ll see these things within yourself.
A chick will want to sow her oats for all sorts of reasons, things that have very little to do with the guy.
She could have just gotten into a fight with her man. And sleeping with another guy is her way of getting back at him.
She could be down in the dumps, maybe she doesn’t feel sexy or pretty. Sleeping with a guy is something that strokes her ego.
It could be her birthday and she’s in a good mood. Instead of flaming hot cheetos or Talenti Gelato she wants a banana to split her in two.
Men do not really have the option to have sex to fill some other emotional needs.
Women do.
So even when your game is on, It’s not always about you.