Talking about current events seems like such a cheap move, but there are some game lessons. Lemme throw some red meat to the wolves.
Kellz
Kellz has been found guilty of all sorts of things in the court of public opinion. But Him, OJ, MJ and Jay Z were found not guilty in an actual court. I digress.
People are really in their feelings about Kellz. Nobody would ever malign WIA by saying he’s a fan of R&B. It’s not interesting to note that most of R Kelly’s initial fan base was women, but it is noteworthy that his primary fanbase after the criminal trial is primarily women.
Weinstein was trying to use his position to bang the unsuspecting. Cosby straight up drugged chicks. Maybe some were down with that sort of activity, but once you go unconscious – you’re ability to consent ends.
Kellz though? He was (allegedly) targeting chicks at high schools and McDonald’s. That’s some straight predatory behavior if true. Post Trial is where parents were offering up their daughters so they could have a shot at a career.
So let’s recap, 1) most of his current supporters are women, 2) the people who sacrificed their daughters were parents.
In the current blacklash, who’s getting the most umbrage? Is it the female base of Kelly’s wealth? The parents who didn’t know any better?
No, it’s people like Drake, Toure, and Charlemagne the God. 3 arguable allies to the movement. Folks that didn’t want to appear in the documentary against Kellz and had nothing to do with Kellz are feeling the heat.
So with respect to the game, what can you learn. The Kellz topic is not something I’d bring up while trying to bust my raps for a chick. It’s the wrong kind of chick crack. (I was just at Shake Shack listening to some woke daughter jawboning her father about this)
In terms of what to learn from Kelly – I’m not really one to push dark side techniques. But if you read the accounts, it reads like a girlfriend asking you to pet her dog, put some food in the doggie bowl, to ultimately could you watch my dog while I have some guy come over to stay the weekend.
Nicki and Her New Guy
I’m sure I mentioned this someplace else, but the general understanding of The Games that Men and Women play is that the woman tries to get the best, and the man tries to get the most. A man will cheat opportunistically, whereas a woman never cheats – she moves up and/or gets her needs filled. Cheating doesn’t exist per the hypergamous mindset.
Uh. sure.
But in this case, Nicki Minaj is probably one of the top/most successful/richest rappers currently relevant today. She’s being outshone by Cardi B, but that’s neither her nor there.
She shocked the world by essentially just dating some random dude (who has a few charges to his name). He’s not a rapper, ceo, or even some drug dealing boss. He’s just some random dude from Queens. Judging by his ex, I would gladly take a class to study under a master.
A girl like Nicki, who has everything material that she could ever want, her only real options for dating/long term relationships is an equal of a superior. Just go through the list of her peers and superiors. Those are her options as a 36 year old.
And speaking of a chick with too much money, but not a lot of real relationship options
Bezos
MacKenzie Bezos is about to cash in to the tune of 67 billion dollars, making her the 5th richest person in the world. She ain’t typed a line of code in her life. She didn’t even help him write the business plan.
Mrs Bezos told Vogue in 2013: “I have no business sense whatsoever, but I saw how excited he was.”
She faces the Nicki Minaj/Oprah Winfrey problem too. What about Jeff Beezy though?
He was a hedge fund guy, so there’s no doubt that he knew about real money. The old saw about not getting married. Could he have created an arrangement with Mackenzie? Who knows. But based on the press’s reports of his “sexting”…he doesn’t look like he had the stones.
-Archie
Re: Minaj.
I get the dynamics you are referring to, but don’t you think that also, there is the hometown hero phenomenon going?
Is a girl ever going to have idealize a man again like they idealized an older guy from their teens?
Doesn’t he permanently hold the space as the guy she sighed over when sighing was new and at its most intense?
I have run up against this a couple of times with women, one of whom went on to be a celebrity you’d know, and the other who was the prettiest woman I’d ever known personally, who were four and five years younger than me in high school.
Years later, when their social value had sky rocketed, in objective terms past mine, both of them sought me out hoping for something to happen.
I barely even knew either of them, and with their lifestyles, they had options that spanned the globe and hit the upper social classes.
So why, ten years after high school, was I getting calls from them. It made no sense to me at the time, and eventually I hypothesized that no matter where they went or what they did, the older guy in high school they had a crush on still had an emotionally charged spot in their brain.
I have seen this with other friends too, who end up with women who break up with a nationally recognized sports commentator to marry a charming layabout, the difference being, one was cooler in high school, and she even admitted it was stupid at the time.
I still got messages from that celebrity twenty years after high school, in between marriages, and I doubt if I ever had a conversation with her in my life.
I was probably just the senior in the letterman jacket who wasn’t mean to her in the library.
Interesting topics.
About Bezos & Sanchez
She the latina evil edition of his wife. They clearly fall into his physical type.
Judging from her High T masculine face [small eyes & man jaw], I’d bet good money she made the first move on J like his wife did.
Crazy genius Bezos trusted her to the point of sending dick pics.
Lol. I don’t really do the “testosterone” analysis over here, but funny regardless.
The Nicki Minaj Story reminds me of a classic Roissy post before he went crazy. The post was on Katy Perry spotting her high school crush in the audience during a concert.
Cliffnotes:
-Katy Perry is performing on stage
-Katy Perry spots a guy from her high school who she had a crush on named Shane.
-Shane was the High School QB therefore he was the alpha of the school.
-Years later, Perry somehow spots him in the middle of the crowd and points out that he is in the audience.
-Perry calls him out during the concert in front of the live audience. Then she changes a lyric in her song to diss Shane.
-Mind you, this is around the time Katy Perry got engaged with Russell Brand, another Alpha personality.
https://heartiste.wordpress(dot)com/2010/09/29/five-minutes-of-alpha/
Takeaway:
Women never forget their first crush, even if the guy is a loser 10 years later. She will always have a soft spot for him. It doesn’t matter if she is currently dating a man who is 10x more wealthy, famous, alpha, etc.